Preview to a Batchelorette Party

So I attended a friend's bridal shower that was a combined batchelorette party (supposed to be afterward), and it was a very small and intimate party complete with wine and good company. Well, the bride-to-be's sister surprised everyone by hiring a stripper to come to the Bridal shower, and so my friend, Kim, was definitely in shock. It was a little painful to watch because she, first of all, was not prepared for this surprise. Secondly, the stripper was a little "seasoned," and he did all the cheesy stereotypical things that we see in movies. He dressed up as a police officer and said that there was a noise complaint. He had to search her, and such. I think strippers especially for women is kind of traumatizing because a strange man is paid to grope the other person, and everyone is supposed to watch. Kim did not enjoy herself, nor did I enjoy watching her. She was screaming at her sisters, "You guys don't know me at all!" She did get a little taste of revenge when she got to put her sisters on the spot, and she ran to get out a whole wad of twenties. I thought that part was funny. So after this experience, I kind of hope that when my time comes I won't be in the same situation. Really, all I want to do is just hang out with "the girls" and have a lot of fun doing it. That is all I ask. Please spread the word. No naked men please. =P