California Shower and Batchelorette Party

So I just talked to Kathy, Paul's sister, who is in charge of all of the California events leading up to the wedding such as the bridal shower and the batchelorette party. There will be a "family style" bridal shower in Hawaii on the Wednesday before the wedding to include all the out-of-town people, but we're going to hold one here to have one that's more intimate. I have to say that I cannot wait to see what Kathy and crew have planned. They are making things extremely mysterious, and with things like this, Paul's family is extremely good at keeping secrets. I have already experienced this with the engagement. Kathy and her mom even accompanied Paul to choose the right ring a few months before he officially asked, and I had no clue. I'll just go with the flow when the big days get here. I am just looking forward to spending time with the women I love and love to hang out with.